Why can’t I orgasm with a partner? Part 3
What you’re receiving is not what you really want…Firstly, do you know what you really want? Secondly, how do you communicate that in a loving and effective way to your partner?
Why can’t I orgasm with a partner? Part 2
Squeezing and clenching instead of relaxing and letting go…As a bodyworker and masseuse specialising in intimate and sensual touch, I have seen that pretty much, without fail, every person that I’ve worked with who is experiencing some level of anorgasmia has chronic tension patterns in their body.
Why can’t I orgasm with a partner? Part 1
The buzz could be killing your buzz… This is a question that I get asked by a lot of female clients. It was also a personal issue for me until about 10 years ago: I could reach orgasm when I was masturbating, but when I was with a partner I just didn’t…get there.
Vaginismus and Genital Massage
Vaginismus and Genital Massage Break the cycle of pain and access more pleasure in your intimate life What is vaginismus? Have you ever experienced pain during penetrative sex, or when using a dildo, or even when inserting a tampon? When you’re having sex does it …
Erectile Dysfunction and Genital Massage
Erectile Dysfunction How genital massage can fix the problem… What causes erectile dysfunction? There can be many contributing factors that lead to erectile dysfunction (ED). It’s important to consult your doctor, and address underlying health concerns such as high blood pressure, diabetes, weight issues, stress …
Endometriosis…
I have tried various things over the years to try and reduce the effect of endometriosis on my body and my life. The first major improvements I experienced were through changes in my diet. I’m also going to talk in this blog about how abdominal and genital massage – from trained practitioners and my own hands – have further aided me in maintaining a relatively pain-free relationship with my womb and my menstrual cycle.
Premature Ejaculation…
Premature ejaculation is one of the most common issues that my male clients bring to sessions. It’s often also expressed as ‘wanting to delay ejaculation’ or ‘a desire to have more choice around the ejaculatory response’. To give you a starting point, here is my guide to working with PE.