Bodyworker & Intimacy Coach
Masturbation is a solo experience for many people, but mutual masturbation can be also be an amazing experience and it has a lot of benefits! Sharing a masturbation session with a partner can be an excellent way to show them what you like when it comes to touch and stimulation (and vice versa). It is an exciting opportunity to witness your partner’s pleasure, and have them witness you.
Trying out different masturbation positions is a simple way to make your experience more exciting and pleasurable, as well as being an effective way to reduce dependence on porn. Check out my top 5 masturbation positions to get you started!
I work with many men, and their partners, each year who have been through prostate cancer. Their questions around how prostate removal affects intimacy generally focus on the impact on their erections, what orgasm will feel like, and whether anal penetration is still OK. In this blog article I’ll cover all three and share my experiences as an intimate bodyworker.
Do you experience feelings of shyness, shame, or anxiety when getting close to someone for the first time? Maybe you’re uncertain about how to enjoy sex and ensure your partner’s pleasure as well. It could be that negative thoughts about your body hold you back from progressing with a new partner, causing worries about being naked, intimate, and engaging in sexual activity.
Do you find it difficult to ask for what you want during sex? Intimate communication can be tricky. Try these two practices to make it easier and have more satisfying sex.
Perineal massage is the process of massaging and gently stretching the skin, fascia and muscles of the pelvic floor, the opening of the vagina and the perineum (the space between your vaginal opening and your anus). Regular perineal massage in the run up to labour (and even before you start trying to get pregnant) can help to make your birth experience as easy and pain free as possible.
What is male infertility? If you or your partner are struggling with infertility issues, you are not alone. More and more couples are struggling to conceive. This blog discusses how testicular massage can help, and how to give yourself a testicular massage to improve fertility markers.
What’s the best lube or oil to use for sensual massage? Is it normal to use lube during masturbation and sex? What should I avoid? All these questions and more answered in this blog!
What to expect in a series of couples coaching sessions. Learning more about intimate touch, exploring with a third person present and deepening your experience of intimacy and pleasure.
The way you masturbate is a template for your sexual experience with others. It can enhance or diminish your ability to stay present, relaxed and horny. Self-pleasuring is a form of mindful masturbation, that helps you deepen your connection to your body and your pleasure.